Friends with Benefits Arrangements Work?
A friends with benefits arrangement means that you will get a friend, but also lots of casual sex without any long-term commitment.
For many people, this sounds like the perfect situation, because they do not need to fuss around with the boring elements of a full-time relationship, but they still get great sex whenever they want it.
Holding down a friends with benefits relationship can be tricky though, despite the good times that can come from it.
Many people just don’t want to commit these days, and they are like this for many reasons. Perhaps they are busy at work, have other family commitments or just don’t want to take life too seriously.
Being in a full-time relationship can get complicated and there will always be talk of settling down, having children and planning for the future.
This can be great, but it isn’t always what we want. At any age, many people just want to have fun and enjoy sex without stressing too much about the serious side of life.
Friend with benefits arrangements can be anything that you want them to be. Perhaps you have a great friend who you enjoy being around, and occasionally you have sex too.
Maybe you have broken up with an ex, but despite being out of a relationship, you hook up just for casual sex. Other people have arrangements that involve a stranger, or someone they don’t know very well, who they meet up with just so that they can have fun in the bedroom. (more…)