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rules on friends with benefits

Friends With Benefits Rules

Friends With Benefits Rules

So you’ve got yourself a friend with benefits?  And now you’re wondering what are the rules of engagement?  Friends with Benefits Rules

We’ve put together a list of do’s and do not’s to ensure your friend with benefits is just that… and nothing more!

Rules of Friends with Benefits –The ‘DO’ List:

  •     Be respectful – don’t lose sight of common courtesies like saying thankyou and returning a phone call or text
  •     Be honest – going behind someone’s back isn’t cool, be honest and communicate up front
  •     Use protection – if it’s just a casual thing, don’t risk it, cover up to avoid unwanted pregnancy or STD’s
  •     Be prepared to communicate – a casual relationship still involves feelings, we’re all human.  Communication can help keep a relationship casual if that’s what you want.  Miscommunication and misunderstanding can end a casual relationship as quickly as it started.
  •     Adjust your expectations – we often have the same expectations in a casual relationship as we would in a committed relationship.  Tone down your expectations based on the casual nature of your relationship.
  •     Be relaxed – be calm and take your time.  Dropping the ‘m’ word during a casual fling can freak the other person out. Continue reading