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Top 10 Climaxes of Having Friends With Benefits

Friends with Benefits

Getting into a friends with benefits relationship is not something that is right for everyone, but for the right people, this can be an amazing relationship. There can actually be a number of advantages of getting into this type of relationship and if you are interested in knowing what these are, check out the top 10 climaxes of being friends with benefits: Friends with Benefits

1 – The Sex
It is really a no-brainer that the sex is a top highlight of having a friend with benefits. In this situation, you get all the sex you want, but you don’t have to commit to anyone. We all have sexual needs and just because you don’t want to be in a relationship doesn’t mean those needs can’t be met.

2 – The Convenience
A  friends with benefits relationship is also quite convenient. You don’t have to go out seeking sex, nor do you have to beg a significant other for sex. Instead, you always have a friend who is game for sex and who can be available very soon.

3 – The Non-Commitment
The other thing that is nice about a friends with benefits situation is that there is no commitment, so you don’t have the drama that is often associated with a committed relationship. Continue reading

How Much ‘Friend’ Time Should I Spend With Her?

Friends with Benefits

Friends with benefits relationships are becoming more common these days and there are many reasons why this is the case. For one, FWB relationships can be very fun. Friends with Benefits

You will probably also find that these relationships are almost totally drama-free. Since this is the case, you will find that many want to get into a relationship like friends with benefits.

The main question that people will often ask when they get into this type of relationship is how much time should I spend with my ‘friend’. Here are some tips that can help:

Do Something Sexual Each Time You Get Together
The total time you spend with your friends with benefits is totally up to you, of course, but you want to be sure, even if you have several friends with benefits, that you are meeting them with the intention of enjoying a sexual act of some kind.

Of course, you got into this type of relationship because you wanted sex, so it should make sense that you would want to meet with them for sex. Once you have had sex, you can then start talking about ‘friend’ time. Continue reading

10 Rules for Friends with Benefits

Friend with Benefits Rules

10 Rules for Friends with Benefits

What are the 10 Rules for Friends with Benefits?

Many people are choosing to forgo traditional relationships and instead, choosing different types of partnerships. One of these pairings is known as a friends with benefits relationship.

Also known as a FWB relationship, when you are friends with benefits, you are friends with someone yet also have sex with them.

Though this might not seem like a good relationship for everyone, and it isn’t, some people really love the freedom that being friends with benefits gives them.

However, if you want to make sure it works as it is supposed to, you need to remember these friends with benefits rules:

1 – Be Clear About Your Intentions
It’s very important for a FWB relationship to work as it should that you lay out the law from day one. Most people get into these relationships because they don’t want to have to deal with things like commitment or dating drama.

It is important that you share your feelings about this with your partner and make sure they agree before you start. Continue reading

Can We Remain Friends After Being Friends With Benefits?

Friends after Friends with Benefits?

Ending a Friends with Benefits Relationship

Can we still be friends?

If you are like many Aussies, you may have a friend with benefits, also known as a FWB or any number of colourful names.

However, sometimes those friends with benefits relationships don’t really work as you think they will and you simply want to go back to being friends.

There is nothing wrong with this, but you will need to go through that awkward FWB breakup period, something that you may be worried about.

The truth is, it is still possible to remain friends after ending a friends with benefits relationship but just like any type of relationship, it’s probably going to take some time.

How to End a Friends with Benefits Relationship

No one really goes into a friends with benefits relationship with a long term plan, and most of the time it happens because of some circumstance or perhaps a decision to give it a shot.

Most of these arrangements are very short term and in most cases, people find that there was a reason they were only friends from the start.

However, if you want to end this relationship, and at the same time salvage your friendship, you have to go through the FWB breakup in the right way. Continue reading

Friends With Benefits Arrangements, Can They Work?

Friends with Benefits Arrangements Work?

A friends with benefits arrangement means that you will get a friend, but also lots of casual sex without any long-term commitment. Friends with Benefits Arrangements

For many people, this sounds like the perfect situation, because they do not need to fuss around with the boring elements of a full-time relationship, but they still get great sex whenever they want it.

Holding down a friends with benefits relationship can be tricky though, despite the good times that can come from it.

Many people just don’t want to commit these days, and they are like this for many reasons. Perhaps they are busy at work, have other family commitments or just don’t want to take life too seriously.

Being in a full-time relationship can get complicated and there will always be talk of settling down, having children and planning for the future.

This can be great, but it isn’t always what we want. At any age, many people just want to have fun and enjoy sex without stressing too much about the serious side of life.

Friend with benefits arrangements can be anything that you want them to be. Perhaps you have a great friend who you enjoy being around, and occasionally you have sex too.

Maybe you have broken up with an ex, but despite being out of a relationship, you hook up just for casual sex. Other people have arrangements that involve a stranger, or someone they don’t know very well, who they meet up with just so that they can have fun in the bedroom. Continue reading

What are FWB?

What are Friends With Benefits?

What are Friends with Benefits

What are Friends with Benefits?

Friends with benefits are casual relationships between two people that enjoy the physical intimacy of being with one another without the extra commitments and expectations that come with a more formal, romantic relationship.

Friends With Benefits Definition

According to Wikipedia, “Friends with benefits is a term used to describe non-exclusive recurring sexual (or near-sexual) relationships.”

The desire to have a friend with benefits may have arisen due to previous unsatisfactory or fulfilling relationships.  It also may be due to a person wishing to focus on their career without having the emotional burden that can come with a full-time relationship. Continue reading

Friends With Benefits Rules

Friends With Benefits Rules

So you’ve got yourself a friend with benefits?  And now you’re wondering what are the rules of engagement?  Friends with Benefits Rules

We’ve put together a list of do’s and do not’s to ensure your friend with benefits is just that… and nothing more!

Rules of Friends with Benefits –The ‘DO’ List:

  •     Be respectful – don’t lose sight of common courtesies like saying thankyou and returning a phone call or text
  •     Be honest – going behind someone’s back isn’t cool, be honest and communicate up front
  •     Use protection – if it’s just a casual thing, don’t risk it, cover up to avoid unwanted pregnancy or STD’s
  •     Be prepared to communicate – a casual relationship still involves feelings, we’re all human.  Communication can help keep a relationship casual if that’s what you want.  Miscommunication and misunderstanding can end a casual relationship as quickly as it started.
  •     Adjust your expectations – we often have the same expectations in a casual relationship as we would in a committed relationship.  Tone down your expectations based on the casual nature of your relationship.
  •     Be relaxed – be calm and take your time.  Dropping the ‘m’ word during a casual fling can freak the other person out. Continue reading

Friends With Benefits

Friends With Benefits

Friends with Benefits movie

Friends with Benefits movie starring Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis.

With the rise in popularity of casual relationships the term friend with benefits has arisen and is growing a life of its own.

With the release of the movie Friends With Benefits starring Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis the popularity and convenience of having a friend with benefits is replacing the need for a full-time relationship which can consume a lot of our emotional energy and distract us away from our careers, friends and family.

Having a friend with benefits allows you to enjoy the physical intimacy we all crave without the complications, commitments and expectations that come with a full-time relationship. Continue reading

7 Tips for Women to Find and Keep a Younger Friend With Benefits

Woman Seeking Younger Men

More women are seeking younger men for a FWB relationship

Friends with Benefits Tips for Women

Friends with benefits dating can be a fantastic change if you have been on the ‘normal’ dating scene with no luck for a while, then maybe a casual friend with benefits relationship is exactly what you need.

One of the best possible strategies for success with friend with benefits dating is to take yourself outside of your comfort zone and try things that are new and different.

Older women are becoming more attracted to younger men and casual dating for a variety of reasons, and there are many men who are ready to take them up on their offers.

Some younger men love older women too, so there can be a win-win situation for all parties involved. If you are ready to try something new, then why not try friend with benefits dating because it could put a smile on your face.

Once you have found a this type of relationship you’ll no doubt want to the rules to catch him and keep him. This article will take you through seven key steps for friend with benefits dating, and provide strategies and tips for scoring and keeping your ideal friend with benefits. Continue reading

Friends with Benefits Relationship? Is It Just About Sex?

Friends with Benefits Relationship

Friends with Benefits Relationship? Is it just about sex?

Friends with Benefits Relationship

When you hear the term ‘friend with benefits’ sex is often the first thing that springs to mind and for good reason.

A friend with benefits relationship by definition gives you the opportunity to have a sexual relationship with someone you’re close to without having a ‘real’ committed relationship.

But is it really possible to have a long term relationship with one person that is only about sex? Or is a friend with benefits relationship simply an easy way to have a ‘committed’ relationship without the commitment?

The Benefits

he truth is you just don’t know who it is you’re going to go home with when you head out to ‘pick up’ for the night. Having a friend with benefits you can fall back on is certainly a safer alternative but are you there just for the sex or is something more involved?

Those involved in a friend with benefits relationship are often starting off as good friends who want to take their relationship further while keeping it casual or a couple who realise their not compatible in a relationship but want to be more than friends.

Depending on how you look at things, these ‘couples’ (for lack of a better word) are either using the friend with benefits tag as a way to avoid ‘being’ in a committed relationship or simply enjoying sex with a close friend.

Either way it is easy to see that having a friend with benefits relationship is not just about sex.

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